Do you ever wonder how you can help another? Or if you are to help?
Going through your days keeping your eyes open for the one you can stop and help is challenging. Espeically when you think there’s nothing you can do to help their situation.
Meet my friend Mike.
He’s a friend that has been in and out of my path the past two years. When I met him he lived on the streets with his wife, he then got a job and they were able to get a place to stay. I was so excited for them. They were looking great. Cleaned up – physically and emotionally. It seemed their drug usage was down, as well. It was a blessing to see the difference in their demeanor each week as they walked in to church.
Then they disappeared. When I’d go out on the streets, I’d look and ask others about them. No one knew them. My heart sank!
Out of nowhere Mike crosses my path again out on the streets this weekend. He was tattered, torn and hungry. As he walked up smiling he gave me the biggest sweatiest hug that smelled of the streets. At that moment I didn’t mind, I was thankful he was alive.
He began to share his recent days, his wife had left him and he had no where to go. He roams the streets at night trying to stay safe, getting a little shut-eye here and there and then heads to work early the next morning. He said he didn’t want to go on and was trying to sort through his feelings.
My heart ached.
I made sure he had cold bottles of water, food, and socks. I wanted to do more — yet, I did all I could. I helped him in the moment, gave him a hug, and spoke words of encouragement to his soul.
He left promising he’d see me again soon.
Yesterday I wake up to the news that a homeless man’s body had been found downtown in my city. In the area where Mike was walking the streets. Scrambling to the internet, I couldn’t get all the details fast enough.
This is a modern day Biblical story.
As I searched online and the papers trying to get a name of the individual (which I still not have found), the article written up on KRISTV stirred up a rage within me.
I was asking again, “where’s the sanctity of human life? doesn’t anyone care these days?”
Here’s a brief snippet of the story, does this not sound exactly like the story of the Good Samaritan to you? (read that here)
The death has been a hard reality for other homeless people who call this part of town their home.
Fidel Garcia is a homeless man who lives nearby. He says, “It’s like me. They can find me dead, maybe tomorrow morning because that’s what I do. I sleep there, here, everywhere.”
Other residents feel more could of been done to help the man, “Somebody should of got him. Somebody should of picked him up. Somebody should of helped him. I would of helped him if I had seen him.”
Ironically help was just on the other side of the street. (KRISTV article here)
Read the article because there are more similarities than I’m writing. Help was on the other side of the street. Yet people passed by, they saw him passed out and bleeding, and NO ONE DID ONE THING!
No one helped. It’s time we cross-over peeps and begin helping one another!
Seriously, how can we not stop to help others? I know some do, as seen in this video as the woman and her 4-year old were pulled off the railroad tracks by others stepping out to help. So what was it ? Was this guy was homeless and therefore didn’t warrant a stop or were others afraid to stop? I don’t know, but I’m disturbed over the lack of honor for life.
Get out. Get involved. Step across the street. Help another. You might not be able to help the individual to all they need, but you can do a little something.
It’s time we all be more mindful to cross-over and help.
And if you see my friend Mike, please let me know he’s OK!
Have you ever stepped out to help another when you weren’t sure what to do?
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Kristin says
I think we were meant to be sisters!
My husband’s and my heart are breaking right now because we lost our good, dear former homeless friend Greg this past week. His body and I believe his heart just gave up. I’ve been dealing with some anger because I believe professionals did not step up and help when they could. We’ve written a letter to our hospital because they turned Greg away when he was begging for help!
I’ve been writing a book this past year on Greg and others. Would you please pray for me to find a way to finish it? I’ve never done something like this before but I believe I have something here for the world to see.
I just don’t know how to proceed. I do rejoice though in my pain, because Greg accepted Jesus into his heart 1 year ago, Praise the Lord!
My heart beats and hurts with you. May the Lord continue to direct our steps.
God bless you!
Positively Alene says
Yep – I think we’re sisters. I can’t wait to hear about your new ministry too. Also, we need to touch base. I’m writing also. I’ve load to hear about what your writing.
I still have no word today. I’ve seen caretakers turn the homeless and hurting away too. It’s amazing how they treat them in the ER.
So thankful Greg was a Jesus lover! I know you miss him.
love ya sis!
Irma Lerma says
I have to agree with my dear Alene. Too many of us are doing just enough to get by. We think that by going out once a month is enough or that we have done our good deed for the month. THANK YOU, Alene, for calling us out! We have to learn to step out of our comfort zone. We say we want to be Christ like, but Jesus did everything but “normal”. He was always out of the comfort zone. And He’s our God! What makes us so special…
Thank my friend for always sharing and pouring into us! You are helping so many of us grow!!!
Positively Alene says
Irma – we get so busy wrapped up in our own schedules and worlds that many hurting pass by us daily. I continually pray God give me eyes to see — but I know I miss many. But I would hope that if a man was laying on the side of the road I’d stop and lend a hand. Love serving others with you!!
Lisa says
That is so senseless, yet a good teaching moment. Have you heard anything?
Positively Alene says
Oh girl – definitely a great teaching moment. One that makes me realize I need to stay aware each moment so that I don’t pass by one in need.
Haven’t heard anything today! :(
Christina says
So sad. It does sound like the Good Samaritan story, only without the Samaritan. May we all seek to love our neighbors, no matter who they are. Blessings!