Have you ever wondered if your words or actions matter? Or if they even make a difference? Maybe you wonder who even notices what you do.
Maybe you aren’t a speaker or writer, but you wonder as you go through your day if the things you say or do really make a difference to anyone else. I confess, I’ve been there. And not like in years past, but in months past.
I come to this crazy blog and write what I feel I’ve been called to share. My mind gets the best of me, “what will others think, that doesn’t make a difference, why do you bother!” I want to quit because I can’t see the difference that any of these words make.
I teach an online Bible study on Thursday’s. I open the room and for 60 minutes I’m honored to be able to speak in to others lives, but I can’t see their faces or their eyes. I wonder if I’m connecting, if these lessons are making a difference.
I think that’s how it is for each of us, no matter what we do or what our gifting. We question and wonder if anyone cares. We can’t see so we ask “how could this (meaning I) possibly make a difference?” We try to speak in love and truth — but it seems that all comes back void. We can’t see!
The evil one loves to attack your strengths because he’d like nothing more than to take you down when you can’t see. He doesn’t want God’s children to be loved on, so he throws questions at you that you ponder.
Pondering and questioning are easy.
When you live a life that serves others through actions, words, and love most of the time you don’t get to see the fruit of your actions. You serve now, and maybe you never see that person again. You write and maybe you never see who those words reach. So questioning what you are called to do is easy — because you can’t see the fruit of what you have done or said.
If you are visiting here today and you’re wondering whether you should keep giving, singing, teaching, writing, serving, or loving, I’m here to tell you YES!
Just because you and I can’t see the fruit does not mean it is there.
After visiting with a lady today she ends with “You’ll never know how your words got me through the most difficult days of my life. When I was crying out, your words kept me going.” Oh my — what a gift that God would let me see for a moment that words matter.
You and I have to quit wondering if what we are doing matters! It does, even when we are blind to what God is doing.
If God has called you to do something – it matters! It matters that the God of the universe asked you. It matters that you use your gifts.
Step out and be obedient not looking for results that you can see, but believing God. You sow your gift. God will handle the rest. He promises to grow the fruit in His timing after your obedient to plant the seed.
When you can’t see if your efforts matter — they do!
Do you struggle with using your gifts when you can’t see the fruit?
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Elizabeth,@ wynnegraceappears says
Alene, you today encouraged me and gave me a huge gift. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for speaking gently into a place that needed the sweet sweet salve or YOUR words. And yes, they matter. They do. Discouragement, you are kicked to the curb —-today. And hopefully tomorrow. Oh the faith to see and trust when we can’t “see”. You blessed a sister in Christ today. Grateful, elizabeth
Positively Alene says
Elizabeth – thankful you are kicking out to the curb discouragement! Don’t let that dirty D word back in today. Blessings for your weekend!
Tami @Feeding a Hungry Soul says
loved this… “You sow your gift. God will handle the rest.” You are so right. It’s all about keeping our eyes on what He needs, desires and asks of us and not on what we need, desire or want to ask of Him. Your post was a great reminder for me today… http://www.feedingahungrysoul.com/2009/10/what-are-you-looking-at.html
Missy says
I needed this.
I often have these thoughts and worries. I’m always wondering if my writings truly are making a difference to anyone.
Positively Alene says
Keep your eyes on the Audience of One girl! He calls you to write – that’s all that matters. You are making a difference by doing what you are called to do!
Christina says
Every time I doubt, God sends me a little message telling me to keep going, like the lady who spoke to you. I have to remind myself that my ministry is for Him, and He does with it what He chooses. Such a great post, something this heart needed!
Michele {A Life Surrendered} says
I cried hard today. I wanted to quit. Really. It just seemed like too much. But I remember, I have to keep my eyes fixed on Him. This is not for me anyway. What if my yes will mean the difference between eternal life or death? I am burdened with glorious purpose.
You inspire me to be…
Jennifer@GDWJ says
“You sow your gift. God will handle the rest.”
You are such an encourager. These words matter, these right here. Keep shining, Alene. Grateful for ((you)).